You Just Make It Work – One Mum’s Journey Through Loss, Boarding School and Bush Resilience

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What happens when the life you planned changes in an instant?

For Sophie Elliott, the answer has been one step at a time.

Born and raised on a cattle station outside Winton, Sophie grew up learning through the School of Distance Education before heading away to boarding school herself. Years later, she found herself teaching her own children through distance education while living remotely with her young family.

Then tragedy struck.

When her daughter Peggy was just three years old and her son Kip only fifteen months, Sophie’s partner died suddenly, leaving her to navigate life, motherhood and the future on her own.

In this heartfelt conversation, Sophie reflects on rebuilding life in Winton, the challenges of educating children remotely, and the boarding school journey she is now experiencing as a parent.

Together, Amanda and Sophie explore:

  • Growing up on a remote cattle station and learning through School of the Air
  • The realities of being both mum and teacher in distance education
  • How rural education has changed over the past two decades
  • The grief of sending children away to boarding school
  • Why community matters when life takes an unexpected turn
  • The financial realities of boarding school for rural families
  • What communities lose when families are forced to relocate for education
  • Why confidence, independence and opportunity matter just as much as academic success

Sophie’s reflections on the future of rural communities are particularly powerful. She shares why financial support for boarding school can help families remain living and working in regional Australia, strengthening the towns and industries that depend on them.

This is a conversation about resilience, motherhood, opportunity and the enduring belief that sometimes the hardest choices are also the most worthwhile.

If you’ve ever wondered whether boarding school is worth the sacrifice, Sophie’s story offers a deeply personal perspective from someone who has lived both sides of the journey.

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